I have been having such a good time this season. I have learned a lot and of many things that I would not have had time for, if I was working and doing what I did before.
I thought I was happy but I learned real quick that I wasn’t. I was tired, exhausted and burnt out. Now I have plenty of energy, I spend lots of time with family, my hobbies, learning at my pace and teaching others. Basically, paying it forward.
In the past month I have started a side career in the performing arts and my time is paying off in this field. I love it and am learning a lot. I am learning a lot from the big shots and when the project is “ripe” then I will give more information on it.
Looking back, this has only come together when I opened my thoughts to even more positive ones. Some really grateful thoughts. I began to catch myself in starting to feel sorry or pity and was able to change the gear into one that I had to relearn and visit more often. Just like anything else, it took time. Then things started to role in my favor. A bigger plan seems to be unrolling of bigger and better things. I didn’t believe it before. I had to see it to believe it. Now as my good friend Joel says. I believed first and then I saw it before me.
My friends, plugin to something bigger and better to your positive benefit. Time away from the negatives is essential. No one needs to tell you what they are, because YOU know what they are. Don’t ignore the white elephant in the room if there is one, or you have been approached about it more than 2 times about it.
It’s ok to be alone. Itsok if your friends that were not really that good are not with you. Sometimes we need new friends that will respect us the way we imagined we ought to be respected.
There is something better to come. It’s ok that you take time to hash things out. You will find new hobbies, or not, but you will work through them. And in no time, you too will have bigger and better times. Believe it. That is also a choice. Make it yours.
I wish you the best!
La Frau
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